Beating A Dead Horse Or A Show I LikeTo Call RHONJ

Where to begin? Hmmm...Open; A Fashion show, lots of hair, glitter, and sequins... Enter stage left; a mid 30's something "Cher" look alike ( circa 1970s) steps onto the scene in  Skinny Jeans and Lame' Bustier..She has a gorgeous smile and a seemingly sweet demeanor...but all the while, very much ON DISPLAY...AND SCENE!

Look, I like Drama as much as the next ( gay) guy, but seriously? The Real Housewives Of New Jersey has taken a walk on the dark side this last season... I mean what happened to going with Teresa to the plastic surgeon to pick out new "bubbies" ?! for crying out loud! I can even  handle "katty" comments about children unattended and snarky remarks about some one's intelligence but taking it so far in "reality" that a brother and sister have not spoken in a year is a "shame". Who is to blame for this Hot Mess we called Season 4? Some say editing and a Bravo producer named Cat,  name befitting...some say its this one or that one, There are many conspiracies...but my views on the situation are as follows because I tell like I see it...I really believe Teresa Giudice was duped by Melissa Gorga. Yes! Those of you who gasped in shock can grab at your crucifix necklace and pray to Jesus. I don't think Melissa could stand the relationship that Teresa had with her brother and she felt competition... not the other way around. I know that is hard to swallow.

I do feel bad... she has had a lot to live up to given all the failed engagements Joe had as well as 

the high standards Teresa and her family must have set for him. So why do I feel this way? 

 If you look at the POSCHE fashion show scene when Teresa and Melissa were in the bathroom, after Angelo came to the table, you could tell that Teresa was really in a good place with her family and things were on the mend. Melissa instigated the "set up" theory and twisted it to her advantage even using Jacqueline as her pawn. Did you  hear her feeding Jac lines as Joe and Melissa were in the truck? " so she was with him right before she went up to me?" It was clear Teresa followed Melissa to the bathroom right after they left the table and Angelo was nowhere near her. She also twisted Jac into telling Joe what he wanted to hear regarding the " anonymous friend"  cough cough producer, texting. Then we hear Melissa urge Joe to tell his sister to say anything involving the word "shame" as Teresa tried to approach them and resolve what happened ..I don't think Teresa is a coward;  if she was she would have left right after that.  

Teresa went to find Melissa and her brother Joe after all the raucous to set things straight.
 If you noticed Melissa  was the one smiling ( maybe not so outwardly) as her brother drove away leaving his only sister in the street in a state of confusion and disbelief.
Did Teresa know Angelo said Melissa was a dancer? Yes. Did she admit that ? Yes. Did she tell him to go to the table and embarrass  her?... If so, don't you think he would have said she used to dance at the table? Teresa could have also easily said at the table " how do you two know each other " but she didn't. Why would Teresa wait until they were alone in the bathroom? This could have ended a lot differently if Melissa remembered that they are family and the good time they just had on the trip to Napa. She could have easily  let it go ( if there was nothing to hide). She never gave Teresa the benefit of the doubt but went on hearsay. It seemed to be the trend all season.

It was apparent that Melissa loved everyone coming to her side at The POSCHE Fashion Show as a true victim would. There was so much more but this blog is already too damn long...We will see what, if any, revelations The Reunion show will bring...well that's if they don't edit anything on Teresa's side out...That's the way I see it ! Catch me on The #GINA show www.inravio.com Fridays 11EST on #RealityReel breaking down the reunion with @ginacutillo Xx Billy or shall I say : Tanti Baci :) @teresa_giudice